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The Lethality of Loneliness
Below is an excellent article from www.newrepublic.com called “The Lethality of Loneliness: We now know how it can ravage our body and brain.” There is more and more evidence of our biologically-based need for connection and intimacy with others. Here’s … Continue reading
What’s Your Story?
Each one of us has a unique story that reveals our internal complexity. In this thought-provoking TED talk, novelist Chimamanda Adichie talks about the dangers of simplifying the story of a person or place, and the importance of valuing the … Continue reading
Can You Really Prepare for Loss?
I recently lost my father. He had been ill for quite a while, so I had time to “prepare” for his passing. After his death, one of the questions I found myself contemplating is whether we can ever really prepare … Continue reading
Five Losing Strategies in Relationships
In his book, The New Rules of Marriage, prominent family therapist, Terrence Real lists common strategies many people use in relationships that actually reduce the odds of getting what you want from your partner. Can you identify with any of these? 1. Needing to … Continue reading
What I’ve Learned about People
My work affords me the amazing privilege of hearing the most intimate details of people’s lives, obviously for the purpose of being of some help to them. I’ve been officially licensed as a psychologist for 17 years, but have done one … Continue reading
